I am in the middle of looking for a great divorce lawyer right now. My husband is willing to let me have the kids without a fight, but only if I let him off the hook for child support, and that is just not possible. I don’t make enough money on my own. We are going to have to go through the whole painful contested divorce process and hope that it isn’t too hard on the kids. I will try to keep them away from it as much as possible, but I need to do what is best for them.